Why do I become furious with people, and it’s all too easy to rip into them
Hi Friends
From last year my numerology said that I will move. And today my wife and I sit in an empty home. It’s empty because all the furniture were either given away, some to our daughter, some to people who need it and some were sold. But even though our home is empty it is not really empty. Because we have you…we have friends.
I wrote the above more than 5 months ago and to day we are 1500 km from the home we love.
I am contemplating telling you more about my numerology forecast.
Let’s let go, let’s forgive and let’s love.
Even if we make mistakes, let’s try
Johan
Relationships and letting go
We have all experienced it: We hang on to relationships. We cannot let go. I go this email explaining the issue:
Hi Johan,
I found you on youtube and really liked your message. I have worked with the law of attraction for a while now and seem to be really successful with it (especially in attracting money). I needed a bit of guidance though. Do you have an AIM account? If you do, I would love to ask you for a little guidance. But if not, my question would be how can I deal with my best friend and boyfriend leaving out of my life suddenly?
I see that I am happy attracting money but in my happiness and love life I am sad and frustrated.
Thank you for your time!
This is my answer to a new friend:
Hi Bridget
Great to hear from you.
As you continue on your way you’ll find it difficult to let go. We all experience it. But I quickly realized that the world conspires to make you and me better people. When you let go you’ll be in control but when you hang-on you allow the other person to manipulate you ….directly or in your mind.
When you give them freedom they will come back if they should but letting go opens your world to what you must get. If they come back thank them. If they stay away forgive them and love them for conspiring to make you a better person.
Love yourself aways. You are all that matter. If you are happy the world will be happy. Forget about the people and love YOU. They will come to you when you love yourself. And only then can you inspire them.
Love
Johan
P.S. The following is the video I made using my daughter lovely voice.
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Love: The Best Way To Become Happy….
The best way to become happy with someone or something is to reduce judgment and/or increase appreciation. Serge Kahili King
The idea is that we reduce criticism and increase appreciation of self and others to resolve conflict. We tend to think that it’s difficult to be happy, we think we have to pay money to be happy. In the meantime it’s all just a choice. When we choose not to judge, and when we choose not to criticize we can be happy.
In my video on the Law Of Love I discuss the Ho’oponopono method, where you ask for forgiveness, you forgive, you say that you love (self or others) and thank you (self or others). What I really like about the method is that you can do it all in the mind, you don’t have to say it aloud to the person you criticize.
I used to judge everyone I met. But with practice and using the Ho’oponopono method I am getting better at it. And when I fail (and I do) I just ask the person for forgiveness, I say that I forgive the person, and I say that I love person and you thank (all in my mind).
Just think about it: You had a monster fight with your best friend and you use the ideas above to resolve the conflict, in the privacy of your own mind. I have used it many times and should not be surprised by the results but I am.
If you are unhappy with what I have said or done, please for give me, I have already forgiven you and I love you. Thank you 
Johan
